The Program we returned from Spain with was not the one we left England with. Imagine setting the intention to create primary relationships in our lives that support and encourage us

The Program we returned with from Spain was not the one we left England with. Imagine setting the intention to create primary relationships in our lives that support and encourage us to live in our power and authority – CONSCIOUSLY. I think this has always been an unconscious desire of mine, but those words hold a lot of power in our program.



Many of us have attempted to bond over our pain and shame getting angry or jealous when the other people start to step into their own power. Have you done that? I know I have… many times over many years in self-help groups.



When we bond over our shame only, eventually it feels like we are walking on eggshells in all our relationships. If we feel this way, then we can safely say we have not bonded over our programs power and thus have not attracted any relationships that supports and encourages us to live within our power. The flip side of this desire is that we must also celebrate, support and encourage others to live in his or her power. And THAT can be a scary thing. If they live in their power, we have less certainty around what would possibly happen to us.



If we support someone else’s program power they might get more attention than us, which can feel threatening. It takes a bold and confident person to bond over each other’s power and encourage the fullness of the other person authority.



So, my question for you today is this: are the relationships in your life relationships that support your power or discourage your power? Have you bonded over your wounds only, or have you bonded over each other being in your mutual power? Is your relationship set up so both of you can thrive? Or do the relationships in your life hold you back?